Tuuli Nelson - Astrologer

The next wedding with Jacyn and Shadie🩷🔥
Talking about a different kind of wedding! Wedding that was truly special and about you two and being present with each other and having a community around you. Proud to be part of this community.

“Authenticity is the courage to be yourself.
Attachment is the need for connection. When the two conflict, attachment wins.”

~Gabor Mate

In most of us these two are in conflict! How to be more authentic when that often means we will loose connection??

This is the root question on the journey to authenticity and healing. On returning to wholeness.
How to be Me, authentic, and still connect deeply with others without being attached to them? Or attached to an outcome?

On my own journey that has taken decades, I have battled with this question and I am realizing, that authenticity is not something I believe in or try and be. Authenticity happens naturally when I return to my body and present moment.

In order to do that, I have to accept myself as I am, all the good and the bad… this creates a sense of safety within that enables me to pause before I react. Before I defend myself or get angry or frustrated or feel a victim.
I slowly return to more original Me. Me before traumatic experiences, hurts, believes and ideas. The more Core Me.
I am more grounded in myself, anchored to something that is not a feeling or an emotion. Something that is beyond that, but still part of me. This creates the courage to be myself because I’m connected to myself and my body again and instead of emotional attachment I start to connect with others and my environment from a deeper, more grounded place.

The conflict between being authentic and needing connection as an attachment fades away.
I feel safe and whole without emotional attachments to others.

This is the journey we are all in now! 😅
How to return to the relational awareness and true connection between us? How to return to unity? And at the same time be authentic?! 😄

To me, the key has been to return to my body and Mother Earth first💚🐉 to let go of being anything or anyone and relax into being nothing and nobody, because here we are one, we connect through our shared nervous systems. And only then we can start the journey of individuation.

First returning home to my body, to the ancient feminine wisdom of our relational consciousness that is Love. Then whatever we do or say is rooted in this Love.

The revolutionary act of our times 🐉

We have come here to build a sense of Self, to be able to function, think and experience life, but at some point on our journey here, we are suppose to wake up and turn back home. Towards our Core Being. This core being is first of the Earth 🌍 it’s feminine, a mystery to a separate Self. It’s a difficult concept for a mind to grasp, because how can I be everyone?? It doesn’t make sense. It seems more like dying or giving my power away or not being in control… but, when I relax and open in my nervous system, I naturally and organically melt into this dimension or frequency! I mysteriously know I’m everything, the whole planet earth and the universe. This is feminine power of surrendering my individual self and becoming one Being.

We are Awakening to this Feminine Core Being collectively now. It is causing a lot of pressure in our bodies and minds which causes all kinds of problems and symptoms in people. Some feel more tired, get ill, experience fear or anxiety and old patterns coming up again. And, others experience anger, feeling threatened and wanting to fight for their independence…

Hence, the global environment we are in at the moment. It’s like the pressure is pushing the shadow into the light, individually and globally.
Whatever we are suppressing or hiding or shamed of is coming to the light whether we like it or not. What is inside of me will show now… whatever I feed within will be shown through my actions and words and how I hold myself.
Is it fear? Is it worry? Is it righteousness ? Is it anger? Or
Is it curiosity? Is it kindness? Is it love?
This matters now more than ever!!

This is why it’s important that we know our shadow and learn to relax and open in our nervous systems when challenged or triggered by others or circumstances.
This is embodying your awakenings and actually living it in your everyday life ☺️
Giving the Core Being presence and form in your life through your body and actions and words. This creates stillness and presence in us that we can anchor to.
Coming back to Authenticity and sovereignty.

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I love this poem by Wendell Berry soooo much ❣️❣️
It really captures what we are all looking for and have a sense of. That we are not separate from the whole. That we are always connected and always whole, but just choose to be absent from it.
Being whole is in the first instance to be Me and accept me, the kind of self I have. Like accepting a coat that I was given when I was born, instead of trying to change it or throw it away. Accepting myself is relaxing, because I can stop trying to improve something that is only a tiny little part of who and what I am.
I am, you are, a whole world. Levels and levels of depth and knowledge. But, it never gets to be here if I don’t open to it, open to my own inner depths.
What keeps me from opening and softening and going deeper is a lack of groundedness and a nervous system that has become rigid and structured and easily triggered and influenced by circumstances and others. These are the trauma responses and coping mechanisms I use,to avoid being hurt again, but I am then also successfully avoiding opening to greater understanding, of myself and others around me. I keep on moving in these patterned ways and repeating same old stories, beliefs and ideas.

Somatic healing is to break free from these old patterned ways of thinking and moving!! Breaking open from old, old narratives. Narratives that are often inherited from our parents and grandparents… reliving the same old beliefs, structured behaviours and even emotions that our ancestors couldn’t own and integrate.
Accepting myself as it is, is often the first step towards opening to the rest of me. Starting to touch old hurts and trauma with tenderness, embracing them, instead of rejecting them into the unconscious or projecting them into others.
In doing so, I open in to Life.
I open myself to Love again🩷 and this is totally life changing. My whole experience of myself and life will alter and I return to the Whole of me, to my body and nervous system and to Earth, Gaia, Her. I remember I belong. I belong to something greater than just this separate little Self. And, I can feel the otherness or other realities that are existing alongside this one. Returning home.

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So looking forward to starting this deep, inner healing journey with you.
A homecoming, return to your original You, your body and true safety

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