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Mrs Meda Series My story is long but help and read and post. I want to speak my mind on a public space.

My wife is very irres-sible and I regret marrying her for this thing she did to me. Leaving 5 children with me and going to Nigeria because I asked her for a divorce.

This is someone I payed for her masters and brought to the uk.
Her first time in the uk was because of me

Some weeks ago I sat her down like a man in our house, I told her that I wanted a divorce, that I had made up my mind and would be moving out that week.

I made arrangements for money for the children. She didn't say anything, she said okay not a problem,

she just nodded and said she understood like she has been planning this thing.

I thought it would be a conversation or maybe she will say something, but it wasn't like that at all. She did not even beg.

Without a single word, she packed her things the next morning, grrabbed her phone, and texted me.

"I'm going to Nigeria. I'm leaving the kids with you." That was it. We have 5 children together. She now carried their passport so I can't travel with them to Nigeria. How do you leave 5 children with me ?

For what?? Is she not the woman in the marriage to cater for the children. What pain me is our twins, their birthday was the next week.

She didn't seem to care about what would happen to me raising this children, and I was left there holding the responsibility of our 5 children by myself. As if nothing had ever mattered,

l was stuck there by myself where I had to pick up the responsibilities of a broken family that she didn't seem to want to be a part of anymore.

The calls I made to her family did not mean anything, only her mother even still pick my call, she left me with no support. Her family are u$eless like her. I have to apply for new passport for our children.

I swear she won't see these children again. I married a thief and wizked soul. She stole £3,000 from my account using my email to authorize it. The first few days was overwhelming for me, l started to have temperature like I'm falling sick. It was like I didn't ex st outside of being their father.

I can't even watch ball or go out I could barely find a moment for myself. These children it's Like my wife told them to fru$trate me with tantrums, late night feedings, and constant messes.

And every time I looked at them, I realized that she is not coming back. She wasn't coming back for them, for me, or for the life we had once tried to build. What type of woman does this ?

In the midst of it all, my sister has to stepped in. She started coming over to help me, picking up the slack when I was drowning. I don't know what I would have done without her. It wasn't fair to her, either, to be pulled into this wahala but she did it without question.

She stayed up with the kids, cleaned the house when I couldn't, and gave me the space to catch up on some sleep. when my wife's phone is off and I wonder what she is doing, she dye her hair gold.

Now, it's been 16 days since she left. 16 days of taking care of these kids sent to pihish me to hell. 16 days of wondering how she could leave without a second thought. Which woman does that?.

I still haven't heard from her, and it's like she never loved me or even cared about our children, her children keep cring and asking for her.

Some day l'm angry and other days I miss my wife. God is on the throne. I have been reading Joel 2:25-26 to restore my marriage. That's how a feel today, my feelings go from angry to missing her sometimes.

What do you advise? It's like she never loved me or her children. What mother will do this ? I will get the passport soon and I will go to Nigeria.

Mums here who have employed house maids, please, how do you deal with a situation where the house maid becomes pregnant 🤷

​At first, she completely denied that she was not pregnant, but now she has finally confirmed it, and she's quite far long.

Already 4 months gone already 😏

She has always been wonderful with the children, but lately, she seems to be getting very tired.

It's more like I've become the house maid instead because she's no longer helpful around the house, either just sitting around or sleeping

​My original idea was to buy the baby's necessities, and give her some extra money in addition to her final salary and let her go.

However, my husband advised me against it 🤷

He insists that because she has taken such excellent care of our children, we should treat her kindly and allow her to stay, even after the baby arrives.

​My concern is: How will she manage her work duties while also taking care of a newborn?

​I raised this question with my husband, and he told me that we will hire a second maid. This new person would assist her for a few months while she adjusts.

The guy responsible for the pregnancy has ran away according to my maid and when I requested we should look out for the boy's parents, my husband kicked against it and said it was irrelevant.

Please guide me through this 🤦

"It happened on the 9th of May, when they abd&ct£d me, my mum and my assistant in the evening. They carried us straight into the bush. We trekked and trekked all night. We kept walking all night.

In the afternoon, they would make us rest during the daytime. At night, we would trek again until we entered the forest.

It was me and my family at first. Later, they started adding other people to us. First, four girls from one family, then two other families. So we became four families.

They kept moving us from place to place inside the bush. Then started calling our families for r@s0m, they started from ₦200m. They would t0rtur£ and be@t us anytime our families said the money was low. They kept doing this until we reached a particular place where we stayed for two days.

On the 15th of May, during the day, they called my mum and asked her, “Mama, what is your age?” She said 66 years old. They asked another lady, she said 45 years old.

I thought maybe they wanted to stop b£ them because they were elders. I didn’t know they had another plan.

In the evening, they moved my mum, the other woman, and a 15-year-old boy a little away from us, and we could still see them. Before that, they called everyone’s family again for r@ns0m. My family said they have ₦7.5m, the other ₦1.5m.

They got a&gry over the one of 1.5m. They were a&gu!ng if they should k!!l them or not. Before we knew it, they sh%t them. They sh%t through the other woman into my mum.

We were watching everything. The boy was later brought back with bl&&d on his back, saying they had d!£d. But I was still hearing my mum’s voice close to me, praying. Later she started breathing heavily and g@v£ up.

After that, they moved us again under a Banga tree. That was where they also sh&t the boy too. We stayed there one night.

Finally, they moved us through a borrow p!t, then a tied road, and across to the other side of the road. They released us after my family paid 11m r@s0m. They also collected items like rice, turkey, Fanta, Black Bullet, school bags, suya, and power banks before releasing us..."

- K!dn@p survivor recounts he@rtbreaking ordeal in abd&ctors' captivity.

Country go Dey burn, opay go Dey call person to pay debt... they can't even read the room Abi person go Dey hide from evil bandits still Dey pay gbese🥹💔?

What is the price of cooking gas now in your area?

Happy children's day to all the kids around the world

Life is already tough don't make it harder for others by pulling them down.

If you don't have strong mind don't watch the video, I did and I haven't been able to get over it.