Theperfectbone Academy

Marriage separates the boys ftom the Men..

A Man in marriage must be pillar for his home

Your leadership role is key to the success of your home:
In a recent online video call that became time wasting, both parties had read enough of their personal files, seen pictures, but the guy was shy and could not speak out by announcing his intention for marrying the Lady introduced to him!, the Lady cut off the video concluding that he was timid and shes sure he wasnt mature enough to be a husband, therefore, all the money, time, and work of the dating agency could nit deliver dividend because of the guys deficiency...

If you cant toast a Lady at the first instance,then of course, how can you become her head and someone she would look up to, not minding the introductory work already done in this example, you must be somebody mature that can express yourself clearly, a Leader that can be relied upon, someone that can be a good example even for the children as they come inside marriage, it is very paramount then that a Man must be atticulate, bold, where he can express himself very well in whatever capacity of life he finds hinself especially for the role of a husband and leader in his family...

You must realize that once married, you have taken over the role of your wifes father who relinquiches all his overall fatherly role to you, the word of God confirms that when your wife wants to take an action, you must not be against it or she should not do what you oppose since she is no longer under her fathers custody but yours having become her husband (Numb.30 v 4-8).

It is inside marriage that who your wife trully is unfolds,all the flaws are revealed, you need all the shock absorbers , wisdom, and maturity to tilt and respond well to your wife by understanding her, as you see who she truly is, some of these traits you cant change, you just have to live with, your knowledge of the significant difference between a Man and a Woman helps you to stand and behave with wisdom or your marrisge falls like a pack of cards!, these is where you must be cool headed, be able to judge characters and profer the best solution with wisfom and understanding( the boys are separated from the Men the first 3-6 months)...

The importance of being faithful only to her is also very important, apart from its spiritual importance and power( two will chase ten thousand/ and whatever you both bind on earth shall be binded in heaven), a Lady cheated is scorned and most never forget though they may forgive,be aware also that that external party had opened your house for demonic infestation at will, which may sooner or later crumble that family because the enemy fights day and night that a marriage must not succeded...

To be concluded...

On the toasting level!

Continuation from yesterday

Another point you could raise also is

See what the economy downtown had created,people que for free Congo of rice and were stampeded to death by the mammoth crowd at a recent stadium crusade,may their soul rest in perfect peace.....such topical happenings can trigger conversations..

If it is in a bus,as people drop in their various stops,try to get close to where she is,make sure you respond to whatever ideas or flow of her responce,she immediately picks that you are interested in her,keep the conversation going,and quickly introduce yourself and tell her it will be nice if you could get to know her more/ or it will be my pleasure to know you more than this chance meeting( politely and pointedly), you can then go on to commend her responce,her wears,her charm and good point made with her intelligence and her flow," what do you do for a living / where do you work? Can I have your number( you must have written yours on a paper ready with your pen to collect hers while giving her yours)...

I will like to get to know you better...( this must come in pleasant way ,with you meaning it and you must show very keen interest trully to want to know her more than where you met, .... she gives you her number,then you make sure you call or flash that number just to be sure before you part for that day,then the calls will start....where another meeting will be planned A Lunch date,sending her call card,( it is very important you must be a giver,she will respond if your sincerety is shown and seen...then you flow and take it from there....).

In other gatherings like events,meetings,church programmes,all you need is a chance to open a conversation...meaning you must not be shy to talk and mix with the opposite gender....

This is an effective methord that wins all the time...

Danger lurks in s*xual perverts

Physical evidences that you have been inhabited by other spirits are many,some very visible ones are:

As you grow,water comes out of your eyes at will,hands shake uncontrollably,water oozing out of your palms,for a Lady,the lust to go in to someone new is rampant that is vey easily visible ( uncontrol lust for anyman that is seen)..

A consultant Doctor confirmed that a latest scientic result by renowned professors affirmed that when a child is born,all the traits of those that had known the mother intimately including the s***m that ferterlized her egg will be carried by the baby, meaning if a man had recieved a curse for dissapointing the mum,the mans trait will be carried by the new born baby,any guy that has insanity in his lineage that had knowledge of her, is already carried inside the baby,of course, all demonic trait too of others shed slept with too are in him, imagine how many character traits a baby will carry if the mother was not careful at conception,but a free for all in the guise of " it doesnt matter,i will show them two can play the game....

Checking if a guy is a cassanova is easy, tell him no s*x until your bride price is paid by fulfilling the love he professes inside marriage, you will see how fast he gives escuse and dissapear fast, also when a Lady is the one saying" lets do it,lets go all the way,i love you" to a guy, ( ladies are more careful with their body and understand the covenant in s*x), as a man be careful,she may be a demonic agent out to steal, destroy or transfer your God given glory for promotion in their coven, some will even try to convince you that its no sin ,saying if its a Lady that says lets do it,it not a sin, its only when a man that ask thats when its a sin,for such RUN as a man,she can not be trusted...

You will quickly know those hardened agents when they say" they cant be eating a particular type of food always,but will rather eat and do varieties,varities is the spice of life", these sets are example of dogs always going back to their vomit,and a Sow having washed in everyones eyes to wallowing back in the mire...

"I can do with my body whatever i choose, i owe no one an explanation" ,many today having missused themselves by recless lifestyle will now be shedding crocodile tears looking for husband, so also their male counterpart always get what the sow after destroying single ladies chastity, but the goal is to derail your God given glory, any s*xual indecipline open doors for inhabitation by demonic spirit very eager to inhabit that body to perpetuate more evil, let the buyer beware,s*x is not a play thing at all!...

To be concluded....