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Keeping this pregnancy to teach him a lesson

He's not getting away with his wickedness this time!

I recollect how tender he was,romantic and loving that i thought yes,at last,this is the Man for me, it was after he'd had his way and am pregnant that he's true color unfolded that he's an animal, wicked, uncaring,never intending any commitment but just having flings here and there! This time,he's not getting away scoth free!

He's saying he wants out now and the pregnancy is not his!, what terrible lie and outrage. To be candid, you really don't dont feel true love for him but you cant get enough of his physical sexual attraction and he's very good performance in bed, which you dont want to give up ever! but he's a good pretender and you are just being hit with the same truth that you are just a plaything that he just relaxes with but do not care for at all.

In the fit of anger while telling him of the pregnancy,he mistakenly called you a name you never knew existed, so sad indeed, this will not be your first abortions for guys from past failed relationships, but his lies and unfaithfulness made you decide," he must be punished", his wickedness and uncaring attitude to your present plight had already made you curse him naked; but is that the solution?!

To be concluded...

When parties are not compatible

All the signs are showing,other are seeing it but the parties involved.Right from the beginning,it was based on lies wrong doctrines, incompatible lifestyles, we just have to make it work or well be called failures, basic foundamental background differences, relationship not approved by the parties parents, these are just few cases in reference that must quickly be stopped before either parties get hurt..

Do you believe today that many postulate that their parents consent does not matter, that they are two consenting adults, thus they can go ahead and marry each other!? Meanwhile the beauty of marriage is that two families are coming together, each partner now has 2 mothers and 2 Daddies whom they must respect, obey, and refrence as their first God on earth who they must respect, reference just like God said, parents are your first God whom must give their consent before marriage can be consumated...

In reality,they are experienced wanting the best for their grown adult children,those that stays faithful to these admonition always come back with good testimonies, a good example is the case in Basheba and Nabal marriage in the Bible,the bible described Basheba as a woman of understanding, beautiful and intelligent, how then did she end up with her husband described as squndrel, a drunkard and glutton, who never takes advice nor ever listen to it, it was God that eventually killed him for his wickedness and lakadestic uncaring attitude, we can infer that the parents of Basheba did not bother about the mans excesses, they just wanted to see their daughter well taken care off, so she was married off to Rich Nabal...

Delilah was not yet married to Samson but she was already bribed to terminate Samsins life,( Judges 6) yet if he had listened to his parents and Gods injuction not to marry outside of the children of Isreal( Deut.7 v 1 to 3) camp,he may not have been easily captured and ensnared by his enemies.

Who you end up marrying to a great extent decides where you end, in hell fire or with God in paradise!, see the advise of Jezebel to her husband the king Ahab on a supposed land not belonging to him but he forcefully acquired, killing the rightful owner Nabaoth on which they both recieved Gods judgement after the owners life had been terminated; show me your friend,and i can correctly predict who you are, be very careful who ends up as your partner on the alter in marriage...

King Jehoshafat loved and served God wholeheartedly ( 2 Chr.17v3-6, v 9-10) all his enemies never came near him,all nations respected him as King but if its not for Gods mercy, he was almost killed when he allied himself to Ahab in Samaria in marriage,(see 2 chr.18 v 1-3,) wrong partnership in marriage could also reduce your lifespan when you discard discretion and due dilligence for other considerations.

Micaiah,King Sauls daughter was given right from the beginning, as a snare to David whose defeat of Goliate the giant prompted jealousy from the songs of the women alluding ten thousand to David while ascribing thousands to King Saul ,instead of normal brideprice, he was ordered to pay 100 fo****in of the Philistine as brideprice thinking he may die in the process,see how she ended, she recieved a curse of barrenness after making jest of her husband,while dancing and praising God( the Bible records it that " God saw it", she was the only woman in the Bible that died childless!!, that union was already cursed right from the beginning...

Lastly in the book of Ruth,the two sons of Boaz died in a strange land they did not get permission from God to go and be living, they also married outside of Gods camp in a strange land without guidiance of God, don't believe the lie of the enemy that God is not interested in marriage anymore since the fall of Adam and Eve as being circulated today, the word of God was written as guide and adminition for this current ongoing age especially with Father Abrahams reference and order of prayers when they were to choose a bride for Isaac his son in Gen.24 , note the eventual fulfillment in the search and finding which was followed by peace of God, also remember Gods own comment in Malachi that " I desire Godly children", get wisdom,get understanding.

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