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Keep your expectations low from the partner if you want to be truly happy.

When a Man is Truly in Love:
He treats you with the same respect and care he gives to his mother and sister.

Positive attitudes to adopt before starting a new romantic journey.

Be willing to walk away.

This sounds pretty backwards but the more willing you are to walk away the better the relationships you will have.

When I took on this mindset I spent less time in bad relationships and more in great ones.

Here is the issue. Being in love is amazing and there is no other drug like it.

However there is a big issue that arises when we want to “be with someone” or “belong to someone” so bad that we will cast aside our peace, comfort, and needs to have it.

We may have never really had anything in common with this person we’re “in-love” with but we ignore that because being with them feels so damn good.

Months & years go by, that feeling of euphoria fades away and real life sets in.

Laughter and smiles are replaced with anger and shouting. Love and passion are replaced with resentment and fear.

Yet, we just can’t understand what the hell went wrong.

What went wrong is that when they told us they weren’t looking for anything serious when we wanted to eventually get married... we stayed.

When we said we wanted kids and they said they didn’t… we stayed.

When we said we needed them to be honest and faithful and they lied & cheated, showing no effort for true change... we stayed.

When they showed us who they really were, someone we didn’t really want, we stayed anyway…

Because we were “in-love”.

Sometimes feeling good can get in the way of extraordinary.

Be willing to walk away.

Never see a woman as innocent, harmless, or powerless. Be patient and remember, she has a life you don't know yet.

No one can steal your spouse from you unless your spouse allows them to

For the last, will you be my soulmate? ❤️

Just by having more eye contact between you and someone else, both falling in love will become more probable.

🔥 NEW WEEK DECLARATION 🔥

This week, may God surprise you with blessings you didn't expect, favor you didn't earn, and opportunities you didn't imagine.

Where others struggle, may grace speak for you.
Where others are rejected, may you be accepted.
Where others stop, may you advance.

You shall not lose. You shall not fail. You shall not be stranded.

This week belongs to you. Walk in faith, move with confidence, and expect miracles.

Don’t just fall in love with someone’s smile, voice, or presence.

Fall in love with how they handle tough moments.

Fall in love with how they respond when you're not at your best. Watch how they treat you when you're stressed, sad, or struggling. That’s where real love shows up, not just in the happy moments, but in the hard ones.

A healthy relationship is not about avoiding arguments. It’s about how you argue. Do they listen? Do they care about your emotions? Do they speak with respect, even when angry?

Choose a partner who doesn’t walk away every time things get difficult. Choose someone who stays, who learns with you, who chooses peace over ego, and effort over escape.

Because in the end, love isn't tested when everything is perfect. It's tested when things get messy and the right person will hold your hand through the storm, not let it go.🥀🌷

A girl generally doesn't take much time to move on after a breakup. (this is a fact)