Gurly Gworls

My soft era still come with boundaries. My healed era still don’t tolerate disrespect. My quiet era still moving mountains. Don’t get it confused. 🧘🏽‍♀️💅🏽

💅🏽✨ Scripture of the Day ✨💅🏽

Proverbs 31:25 — “She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.”

That’s real soft girl power right there — strength, class, and peace that don’t fold.
We not stressing the future. God already handled it.

Keep it cute & covered, sis 💖

Sis, stop shrinking to fit in rooms you were meant to take over.
You’re not “too much” — you just got main character energy.
Some folks just not ready for your presence. And that’s okay.

Walk heavy today. 💖👠

Starting my day with Psalm 23 🙏🏽
The Lord is my Shepherd—I shall not want. He’s leading me, covering me, and restoring me. Even in my valleys, I will not fear. My cup is overflowing with favor, peace, and protection. 💕✨
Today, I’m walking in confidence, because I’m not alone. God got me.

I had to learn the hard way 🤞🏾 about having people’s back…
Riding for folks that wouldn’t even stand next to me when it mattered 🤷🏾‍♀️.
Being loyal to people who let others talk crazy about me behind my back 😒🗣️.
In group chats. In low-key convos. With people they swore they didn’t f*ck with 😤📱.

That’s the part that humbled me.

I was protecting people who secretly had jealousy, hate, and competition in their heart 💔😮‍💨.
They couldn’t stand how comfortable I was in my skin 🧘🏾‍♀️✨.
I’m not for everybody, and that’s okay — because I’m not fake either 💯.

That’s why I’m not big on “friends” no more 🙅🏾‍♀️.
I stand on ME 🖤. I ride for ME 🚶🏾‍♀️.
Because when it comes to ME… people love to start acting weird 🧐👀.
And one thing about it… weird is NEVER connected to me. PERIOD. 🚫🧢

The way I pour into people… the love I give, the support I show, the prayers I send—and yet the hate, the backlash, the negativity I get in return? You’d think I’m out here doing folks wrong. But I’m not.

I lead with love, and I walk in purpose.
I move with intention, and I speak life.
I’m not perfect, but I’m real.

And I refuse to dim my light or shrink who God made me to be just to make other people comfortable. I know the gifts in me are divine. I know the calling on my life is major.

So if they hating now… just wait until God really blows my name up. I was built for this. 🙏🏾✨

Sometimes God puts you in uncomfortable spots just to build your strength. 💪🏾
When I started at my warehouse job riding pallet jacks & forklifts, I was over it 😩—ready to give up every day.

But God said “Keep going.”
He was growing me, not punishing me. 🙏🏾

Now I see the lesson: Never give up. Even when it’s hard. Even when it don’t make sense. Even when you tired.

Because baby… your glow up is attached to your endurance. 💅🏾✨

Dear Old Me,
I forgive you. 🫶🏾 For surviving how you had to. For loving people who didn’t love you back. 💔 For settling just to feel seen. For ignoring your own needs just to keep the peace. 😞

You did your best with what you knew… but we’re not her anymore. 💅🏾✨

I’m softer now. Wiser now. Quieter about what I’m doing, louder about protecting my peace. 🧘🏾‍♀️🔐 I’m done overgiving, overexplaining, and overplaying myself.

Thank you for surviving. But now I’m ready to live.
– The healed one. The glowing one. The one who finally gets it. 💖🌱

I never fit in. I never wanted to. I don’t kiss ass, I do me. Always have. Always will.🤝🏾