The Present Parents

Feeling used in the way men can often relate to can make it really hard to understand the level of feeling used most women instantly can. We want and need men to join this conversation. To ask questions. To think through it. We need to have hard conversations that’s how we get to understanding. **e

Hi Jane, I hope this gets to you. You are changing the world. Your legacy is that the world is safer. That our sons become safe, and can take action. That our daughters can go to school and learn. We believe you. Thank you for fighting this fight. We are honored to fight with you.

This isn’t the case for every person who expresses this sentiment, but there’s a certain portion of men who is is true for. Not recognizing fawning because they are not really being safe and then confusing it with consent. This is why many men think she just regretted it and changed her story later.

Not all r**e is violent. Often it isn’t. Becoming a safe sexual partner means making sure you have enthusiastic consent throughout the entire interaction. **e

Finding toe Cornell case triggering because of your own abuse? But yours happened with someone close to you? Maybe the people you told didn’t believe you.

Bros before Hoes is one of the main reasons why no one did anything. It’s also the reason the first thought many men will have is worry about false allegations rather than worrying about the woman or believing her.

Anger is useful when it’s directed well. It’s wasteful and harmful when it’s not. Don’t waste the precious fury that’s lit inside of you right now.

The Cornell Seven and how we got here and what we can actually do.

If you are tired of missing chances, self sabotaging and beating yourself up after you’ll want to learn to identify these three different states and then learn to help your inner child feel safe moving and taking action.

You know that one thing
you do that you try to hide
from everyone? The thing you’re
ashamed of? That you’ve tried to
Stop but can’t seem to?
You can change it.