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The Frank Edoho situation has made me realize something again

A lot of people don’t actually hate cheating.

They only hate it when women do it.

Because I’ve been reading comments since this story came out and the outrage is very selective.

A man cheats multiple times during marriage

Some people will say:

“Men are polygamous by nature.”
“It’s normal.”
“Just endure.”
“No man is perfect.”

But the moment the woman cheats back

Suddenly everybody remembers morality 😭

Now listen carefully before you misunderstand me.

I am not supporting cheating.

Frank’s wife should have walked away instead of cheating back.

Walking away would have been more honorable.

But what I’m pointing out is the hypocrisy in society.

Especially among many African men who have normalized cheating so much that they now see it as their right.

Some men genuinely believe faithfulness is a responsibility for women alone.

The man can cheat 20 times and still expect loyalty from his wife.

But the moment she does the same thing

She suddenly becomes the worst person on earth.

How does that make sense?

And this is why a lot of women are silently suffering in marriages today.

Because society keeps teaching them to endure disrespect while protecting male ego.

What shocked me most from this whole story was not even the cheating allegations.

It was the level of emotional damage described.

Imagine carrying another man’s children financially, supporting his lifestyle, enduring repeated betrayal, enduring emotional and psychological stress

And still trying to hold the marriage together.

A lot of women are carrying pain silently in marriages. Real pain.

But because the world praises women for endurance instead of healing

Many keep suffering quietly.

Again, cheating back is wrong.

But let’s stop pretending the foundation of many of these situations did not start from repeated disrespect and betrayal from the man.

Some men want absolute loyalty while offering zero discipline themselves.

That mindset is dangerous.

Marriage is not a one-sided agreement where one person keeps sacrificing while the other keeps destroying the relationship without accountability.

And honestly

The comment section revealed something deeper.

A lot of women are tired.

Tired of double standards.

Tired of carrying emotional burdens silently.

Tired of society normalizing bad behavior when it comes from men.

Faithfulness is not gender based.

Respect is not gender based.

Accountability is not gender based.

If cheating is wrong

Then let it be wrong for everybody.

Mallory 🙌🙌

Hallelujah

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Male edition

Bimpe’s pregnancy in this picture wasn’t a movie scene oo
She was actually heavily pregnant during the shoot in Ekiti

Kudos to all the cast and crew that knew and kept it a secret and didn’t make it their news to break 🫶🏾

They let the owners of the news break it at their own time

Once again, congratulations to Lateef and Bimpe ❤️

Thanks for being a top engager and making it onto my weekly engagement list! 🎉

Aluk Awak, Olori Morenikeji Horlarjhumorke, Ufai Earnest, Igwela Ivonn, Naomi Waithira, Lois Titus, Vicky Love, Mable Wamunyima, Nneamaka Okereke, Agnes Solomon

Bobrisky reacts after being mocked for his physical appearance during a live session.

If these two were not married according to the man, what anniversaries was the wife celebrating 🥳 every year ?

Asking respectfully 🙏🏻🙏🏻

I don’t believe they were not married at all.

That man is lying 🌚