Positivity Keys

One question I return to in every transition, more than once:
What do I want to carry into what is next, and what am I ready to set down here?

Nobody decides that for you. The season does not.
The calendar does not. Not the pumpkins in the store while it is still eighty degrees.
You do.

The free session on The Choice Point is there whenever you are ready.
Link here: https://webinar.positivitykeys.com/the-choice-point

From this month's podcast episode: The In Between.
Listen here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3BymzLpiz7w1e36XKO18gj?si=L2sanXbSQOqEsdSbLvlODQ

Most of us try to make the in between stop. We rush toward the next thing or hold on to the last one.
Here is a different perspective.
The in between is a window. Nothing in it has been decided yet.
That is not the problem with it. That is the gift of it.

From this month's podcast episode: The In Between.
Listen Here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3BymzLpiz7w1e36XKO18gj?si=L2sanXbSQOqEsdSbLvlODQ

Something has ended. You can see that it has ended.
But the next thing has not arrived, and you cannot make it arrive by wanting it.

The quiet house. The finished project.
The role that is not yours anymore, and the new one that has not taken shape.

You are not where you were. You are not where you are going.
Most women were never taught what to do with that place.

From this month's podcast episode: The In Between.
Listen Here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3BymzLpiz7w1e36XKO18gj?si=L2sanXbSQOqEsdSbLvlODQ

The garden is not what it was in July. The dahlias are still blooming. The tomato beds are empty. The leaves across the street are turning, and it is still eighty degrees.

I walked past all of it this week and felt something I did not expect.

Not because anything is wrong. Because something is ending, and I was watching it end.
If you know that feeling, this month's episode is for you.

From this month's podcast episode: The In Between.
Listen Here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3BymzLpiz7w1e36XKO18gj?si=L2sanXbSQOqEsdSbLvlODQ

This gorgeous dragonfly came for a visit on the porch.

Saying I get to choose is where it begins. It is not where it ends.

What makes it real is not the declaration. It is the returning. Choosing again, and again, until choosing from clarity is simply what you do. That is the work, and it is the most worthwhile work I know.

The free session is here whenever you are ready: https://webinar.positivitykeys.com/the-choice-point

The same authority that steadies you in a ninety second window is the authority that, used again and again, decides who you become.

I call that window The Choice Point. Once you know it is there, you start to see it everywhere. The free session walks through how to build it.

It is here whenever you are ready: https://webinar.positivitykeys.com/the-choice-point